Friday, August 11, 2017

Boys will be boys… Gender Equality anyone???

A new incident, that took the nation by storm, was when a son of a powerful politician stalked a girl in the wee hours of night when she was returning from work. The girl in question also  had a powerful father(bureaucrat)  to take her grievance public.  A normal parent may not have been able to do so, since the stalker had deep connections with the high and mighty in the corridors of power.

The complaint was filed and the culprit was out on bail in a jiffy. This caused severe uproar and we the people of India did what we do best- started an online revolution sitting in our cosy beds and chairs and commenting on the gravity of the situation and how these spoiled brats should be reined in!

Then I came across a post on FB where it was mentioned how a senior leader and colleague of the father of the stalker, advised that good kids should not venture out after a certain time. The post in question was a strong rebuttal on the statement of this leader.

We had seen the same hype and hoopla in  2012 as well and the same circus will go on and on and will not make any difference till the time we do some serious introspection and come out with ways and means to stop this nuisance.

This is NOT, contrary to what many people think, a law and order problem. The problem will persist till the time we have a different set of ideologies for girls and boys.

I do not understand why we have this notion that females have to carry the moral dignity of the entire clan on their shoulders. Till the time we do not free them from this responsibility nothing will change and we will keep on criticising the system for these kind of incidents.

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Did we ever realise that we are the ones responsible for this creepy mentality that boys are superior than girls? Instead of reciting stories about “Rani Laxmi Bai, “Kalpana Chawla”  “Sania Nehwal” “Sarojini Naidu”, we tell them the gory details of 2012 and tell them not to venture out in the night without any male assistance.

“Change your attitude and everything will fall in place”    

Boys, you also need to understand that “No means NO” and if you still haven’t understood, please watch Amitabh Bachchan starrer “PINK”!!!


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